Who is a Highly Sensitive Person?
A Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), or sometimes called having a Sensory Processing Sensitivity (SPS), has a set of innate, genetic traits and comprises about 15-20% of the population. An HSP’s nervous system is wired differently and they experience stimuli (sights, sounds, touch, smells, and tastes) and emotions at a deep and intense level. Therefore, they are overwhelmed easily, have difficulty making decisions, detail-oriented, very observant, intuitive and generally self-aware. They tend to be “caretaker” types, as they can be very cognizant of the emotions and needs of others, but can sometimes neglect themselves in putting others first.
High Sensitivity is not a weakness, but more of a trait that has both strengths and challenges. HSPs tend to take in a lot of information all at once, so it can feel overstimulating as they are processing so much at one time. But this same challenge can also be used to their advantage, as they pick up on nuances and notice subtleties that others might miss.
Our culture and society is usually not conducive to living as an HSP, but by using their strengths to their advantage, having regular self-care and learning methods for emotional and physical regulation, HSPs can thrive. Having a psychotherapist that is familiar with and knowledgeable about these traits can help a person better understand themselves and identify what works best for managing their sensitivities.
Elaine Aron, a researcher and expert on HSPs, in her book Psychotherapy and the Highly Sensitive Person, uses the acronym DOES to represent the various traits of an HSP, which have been described more above:
D-Depth of Processing
S-Sensory Stimuli/Sensitive to Subtleties
More info on evidence of the DOES traits: http://hsperson.com/faq/evidence-for-does/
Does this seem like it could fit for you, or maybe you’re not sure? Take the self-test to find out: http://hsperson.com/test/
If this sounds like you, and you want to learn more about the traits and yourself, how to harness these strengths and manage the challenges, contact me today to set up a consultation appointment!